
Our wedding was unconventional. We didn’t want to have the cookie cutter wedding that so many people seem to have these days. Instead, my husband suggested, why don’t we do a picnic? That seemed like an interesting idea, and one that eventually caught on.
Our wedding was in Central Park near the Bow Bridge. We had everyone sit in a circle on blankets, and after we got settled we had everyone share advice and stories for us. Eventually we expressed how we felt about each other (a.k.a. vows), and then had everyone eat snacks and desserts out of our picnic baskets (really galvanized buckets, but they still looked really nice). Aside from occasional bits of rain, it was nice and it was nice to do something that was more simple and less stressful than a full blown wedding.
As is the case with all weddings there are things that don’t exactly go right. When we look back on our wedding there are a few things that we would change, but one of the major things we would have done differently was our cake. We had purchased a variety of desserts for people to eat because we wanted to make sure everyone had something that they would enjoy. Then we decided to have a small cake custom made for us.
The idea was that this cake would look like a present like so many gorgeous cakes we had seen online. Something got lost in translation with the baker and we got this:

I know – it doesn’t look bad, but I’ll be honest with you – it’s just not what we imagined. And the taste wasn’t as good as what we had hoped for (the cake, among other things, was very last minute).
This last Thursday was our third wedding anniversary, and as with past anniversaries we tried to make up for that weird cake by making at least a better tasting dessert. And let me tell you – this tasted a-maz-ing, but it didn’t look a-maz-ing (maybe next year I’ll try for that).
Chocolate Cake
Known as Excellent Vegan Wacky Cake on VegWeb.com
- 2 Tbsp. cocoa
- 1 1/2 cups flour
- 1/2 tsp. salt
- 1 tsp. baking soda
- 1 cup sugar
- 1 tsp. vanilla
- 1 tsp. vinegar
- 5 Tbsp. cooking oil or vegan butter
- 1 cup water
Preheat oven at 350 degrees Fahrenheit.
Mix the dry ingredients into one bowl.
First the cocoa.

Then the flour.

Next the salt.

Very quickly – Real Salt is the salt that I use. My mom introduced it to me. It tastes better than regular salt you get, but it is a little more expensive. Here’s a picture:

Add the baking soda.

Then add the sugar. I used a combination of turbinado and white sugar because I ran out of the first.

I like to mix my dry ingredients with a whisk. I’ve found that the ingredients incorporate better this way than if I were to just use a spoon.

This is how it should look mixed.

Now combine and mix your wet ingredients into a separate, larger bowl.
Vanilla – you’ll learn more about this one in a future post. Also, since this is dry, I should have mixed this with my dry ingredients. I added a little liquid vanilla extract to compensate.

White vinegar. I’m thinking apple cider vinegar might work too.

Add your vegan butter.

Here’s a picture of the tub of Earth Balance. When we were first considering going vegan a few years ago we discovered this vegan butter. It’s a fantastic replacement for real butter or margarine, although a little expensive. Notice it says it’s trans fat free, lactose free, and gluten free.

Then add water.

Mix it all together.

Add the dry ingredients to the wet slowly and mix.

Once it is completely mixed it should look something like this:

The granular bits are the turbinado sugar.
I decided that I’d add some of these Trader Joe’s chocolate chips to the batter. Not a good idea.

It looks like a good idea, but I’m telling you – it’s not.

Pour into a cake pan of your choice. This is not a lot of batter, so I’m not sure that a bundt cake pan is a good idea. it might be better to go with a cupcake pan or a square baking pan/dish.


Bake for 25-30 minutes.

When you take it out it may not feel like it is completely done, but don’t worry – it will firm up after a few minutes.
Now this is where I will embarrass myself. Trader Joe’s sells some pretty delicious chocolate, but these chips sank to the bottom of the pan and managed to basically burn to the bottom of the pan. This resulted in a very sad cosmetic tragedy:

This is where we’ll make some chocolate icing and try to cover the cake’s flaws.
Chocolate Frosting
Based on a recipe from VegWeb.com
- 1/2 cup vegan butter (I used Earth Balance again)
- 2 cups powdered sugar
- 1 Tbsp. vanilla extract
- 2 Tbsp. vegan milk (I used almond milk)
- 1/4 cup cocoa powder
- dash of salt
Melt butter or bring it to room temperature.

Add vegan powdered sugar, salt, vanilla, chocolate and soymilk.




Stir ingredients together well.
It’s up to you, but you can stick the frosting in the refrigerator first to get it to firm up a little bit, but it will spread faster and easier if you go ahead and just put it on immediately. It probably won’t be pretty, though.

Let me say that although this had cosmetic flaws, this cake was TO DIE FOR. This was amazingly good. Let me tell you, I made a chocolate cake with chocolate frosting last year or the year before and we kept saying, yeah this is good, but it’s weird. THIS WAS A-MAZ-ING.
But let me warn you, this is calorie dense (I didn’t measure, but come on – look at the ingredients). I had a small slice this morning and I bet you it was at least a couple hundred calories.

Happy Anniversary dear. May we have many more to come.

If not because I love you, then because I love this AWESOME cake and I want it next year. But prettier.







That particular cake recipe is ancient! I know folks whose grandmothers made it during WWI! It was a staple in my house when I was growing up. I recently ran across a neat variation – add a tsp of cinnamon and 1/4 to 3/4 tsp cayenne pepper. You can substitute strong black coffee for the water. It’s called Mexican Hot Chocolate cake and great for the fall and winter months.
We had an unconventional ceremony as well, umm, close to 18 years ago. I presume the two of you agree more on chocolate cake than on Mexican food. Looks delicious.
What a interesting little story about your wedding! So glad that you made an even better and more tasty memory for this anniversary!
I have a basic vegan chocolate cake recipe that works really well with chocolate chips. I’ll try and post it sometime soon. It’s a thicker batter and the chips stay suspended.
I’m really interested in your icing. It looks really tasty. Does it set up on the cake outside of the fridge or does it have to be refridgerated after you frost the cake?
I should have mentioned that in my blog post, but it does set better if you put it in the refrigerator. I would imagine that it is the Earth Balance (or any vegan butter) that makes it set when it gets chilled. The whole thing tastes fine cold, but if that sort of thing bothers you, you could probably take it out and let it sit for half an hour before you cut a slice.
Would love to see your cake recipe. I have had chocolate muffins with chocolate chips, so I know it has to work. Just not with this recipe!
Your wedding sounds so great… I don’t understand why people make things so complicated when it’s really all about love and celebrating love with your friends and family.
The cake sounds great, next year will be prettier for sure!
I have a tip that always seems to work with me for my banana chocolate chip muffins: I fold the chips in at the end, and I basically reserve some of the dry mix to mix the chips in with before adding them. The flour seems to coat the chocolate chips and they don’t sink!
It was one of the highlights of my life and I was honored to be there. I don’t remember which cake I had but it was good. The contents of the picnic bucket were awesome and not only because I helped with the manufacture.
I have a lot of catching up to do. And who is that fat woman sitting to your left?
That cake looks so moist and delicious!
Congrats on your 3rd Anniversary!
Thanks everybody on your comments about our wedding. It is something that we’re both very proud of. This type of wedding certainly suited us – low-key, with family and a few friends, and focusing on what really counts – stories of how other couples have made it, advice on how to be a good couple, and good wishes for the years to come.